I think I’m enjoying this new found type of intimacy. There doesn’t always need to be sex involved. Getting to know someone like really learning about their fears, hopes and dreams. Learning the things that make a person tick is so much more fulfilling then just jumping someone’s bones. Leaving out all the pressure of having sex and building that foundation of a true and honest friendship. Without reservation. Willing to be open and vulnerable with that individual. Being honest with my feelings and emotions are so rare these days it’s scary. Sex should be a privilege and experience for both parties to enjoy once they’ve created that type of mental, emotional and intellectual bond with one another. Sex is just the icing on top of the cake. And I want to try and establish some sort of bond with the next woman (HER) who I can be open and raw with.